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Birthday..... Mixed emotions

“Specifically, in the human, complete expulsion or extraction of a fetus from its mother, irrespective of gestational age, and regardless of whether the umbilical cord has been cut or the placenta is attached.” This is the medical term definition of Birth. It’s very difficult to understand and a bit complex too. 

So we are “Just Pure Nothing Else”, let’s make it simple which we normal people can understand. Seriously that’s not the doctor's fault who gave a long definition of birth. Coming out from a mother's body is a birth. When we are newborn we don’t know the meaning of a birthday celebration.  It’s like a torture for newborn to 1 yr baby to getting ready for birthday even he can’t taste his birthday cake too.

When the baby grows he understands birthday is a celebration where he will dress up and cut a cake with a knife where mom always says stay away from the knife. He does not want to share a single piece of birthday cake with anybody. When he gets young he understands the meaning of the celebration. He just waits for a year for his special day when he will get all the attention, new gifts, new dresses, and lots of fun where no one shouts on him. The birthday is the best day when he can go in a colorful dress in school. Everyone stand-up for him and sings the birthday song, and he is all set for his two-word speech which is "Thank-You All". After the beautiful no music but melodious songs he comes up with chocolates and sweets to distribute among his classmates and to his strict teachers too who definitely like it that day. And finally choose a best friend to accompany him or guard him to distribute chocolate in every classroom of his school. He feels like a royal Prince where everyone claps for him without getting any chocolate. He gives more chocolates to his favorite teachers and friends. 

When he grows up and enters his teenage years, his birthday celebration has changed. His group comes with a cake not for eating definitely, only to give him a cake massage on his face, and in return he has to give a treat. When he enters college, the scenario of his birthday becomes harsher. On your birthday you will definitely get a gift (Birthday Bumps) but this time it’s painful and you will ask yourself why today is my birthday? After lots of birthday bumps, you have to throw a birthday party for them. Now you are young enough to understand what birthday meant for. When he is into a job,  company employees come to wish him, your sitting is decorated, everyone comes to your desk to wish you, even many faces you don’t know.  So from this, we can say Birthday is mixed emotions.

Celebration of birthday changes every year. Even you also change by every year. Everyone wishes you on your special day. But seriously is there any issue to celebrate your day? Why?  Don’t you have the right to feel happy or privileged at least in one day of  365 days? Why slowly people avoid celebrating their birthday. Maybe you don’t want to show others that you are getting old. Why you are thinking about others. I know many people say there is no need for a single day to celebrate, every day we can. But most people who are too busy with their life, heaviness, tons of loads they forget to live and enjoy the purpose of life. Birthdays are concepts of a new beginning. We can change a lot, if we want. Feel that ecstasy of life and joy, because you are special. God gives us a great life, to celebrate, love, bond, achievements, and many more. Using this opportunity makes your life worth it. Forget what happened yesterday or last year just enjoy your today. Your birthday reminds you that you will never be old. Your body will be old, not your soul, so revive your soul, make a new  beginning, let it go and enjoy your day with full of positivity. 

Let’s celebrate another adventure-filled year that awaits you, Welcome it by celebrating your birthday with magnificence and ostentatiousness.

 Happy Birthday!

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